How to Build a House … The Easy Way


Framd Sabrina Beasley McDonald house under construction

Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it; unless the Lord guards the city, the watchman keeps awake in vain. Psalm 127:1 (AMP)

My husband and I were living in central Pennsylvania when he decided to look for another job. After much dreaming and discussion, we got out a map and said we’d target the southeast United States, an area that we love.

“I don’t want to live any further north than the Pennsylvania border and no further west than the Mississippi River,” I firmly declared.

With many unknown facts that were predicated on a potential future job offer, we made decisions about where we would live, where our children would go to school, and what house we would buy. After hours of Internet searches, we finalized our lives in a neat package, and then presented our facts to God.

While searching, but not finding this dream job, my husband had the opportunity to step out of the food-manufacturing world into the entrepreneurial world. We bought an Exxon gas station in our town. I can remember looking over the building and imagining what it would be like to own it. I even excitedly said, “If we owned this, I would be here all the time and never want to leave.” It was a self-fulfilling prophecy—we didn’t ever leave.

After several years of low margins, many long hours, and no vacations, I was so relieved when my husband was offered a food-manufacturing job in Buffalo, New York. It was a job above the northern PA border. What? This was not part of our perfect geographical plan. My husband commuted while I worked at the station until it was sold.

Three months after we moved our household belongings to Buffalo, we learned that the plant was closing. The next job offer he accepted was west of the Mississippi in Little Rock, AR. Seriously? Again, outside of our acceptable location.

God must get a good belly-laugh as He listens to our prayers of what we will and won’t do as we labor in vain to build our futures. Doesn’t He also know just the necessary touch to melt our hard hearts?

Best decisions are forged from knowing all the facts. Only God knows all the facts—past, present, future. In His arms, there are no wrong decisions. There is no nail biting about which way to turn or what to do. Instead there is joy, laughter, peace, and assurance that He is building our house and guarding our city.

Living in those states (still in Little Rock, after 11 years) may not have been of our choosing at the time. However, in retrospect, recalling the blessings that God gave to us would fill several books. Gratitude was a huge lesson we learned. I’m so thankful that He knew just how to build our house. He knew our labor would be in vain if He let us take action on our decisions.

Paraphrasing Joyce Meyer’s famous quote, I firmly declare:

I’m not where I need to be forever, but thank God I’m not where I used to be yesterday.


10 thoughts on “How to Build a House … The Easy Way

  1. Doris Keen February 23, 2016 / 8:34 am

    This is excellent. I think we can all see ourselves as having planned everything (and still do) and the next thing we know God has pointed us in another directions. It is so great to know that God loves us & knows what is best!!! Thank you for writing this!


  2. Helena Davies February 23, 2016 / 9:21 am

    Not only jobs, location and houses. We often labor in vain over smaller projects. Thank you for sharing.

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  3. Michelle February 23, 2016 / 7:27 pm

    Thankful He’s always in control and always knows best!

    “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord. “Plans to prosper you and not to harm you; plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11

    I love you!


  4. Dorothy Johnson February 24, 2016 / 10:43 am

    I’m sure glad he brought you here! Thanks for sharing your wisdom gained through experience. His plan is always best.

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    • Cindy Hansberry February 24, 2016 / 1:18 pm

      Me too, Dorothy! He has blessed me again and again in His plan! You are one of those blessings!


  5. Dorothy Hill February 25, 2016 / 5:03 am

    What a wonderful encouragement! It’s a blessing to look at our path and recognize God’s hand and protection in where He has brought us. Hugs to you.

    Liked by 1 person

  6. Cindy Hansberry February 25, 2016 / 6:59 am

    Yes, Dorothy, I’m glad His path brought us both to Little Rock! Hugs!


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